Can a separated couple truly celebrate one last Christmas together without old feelings resurfacing? A Merry Little Ex-Mas on Netflix dares to explore this question in a heartwarming and surprisingly funny rom-com. Directed by Steve Carr and written by Holly Hester, this film stars Alicia Silverstone and Oliver Hudson as Kate and Everett, a couple on the brink of divorce who decide to spend one final holiday season together with their family before officially parting ways. But here's where it gets complicated: lingering emotions, past resentments, and the arrival of new partners (Jameela Jamil and Pierson Fodé) threaten to derail their well-intentioned plans, setting the stage for a Christmas none of them will forget.
This Netflix Original aims to spread holiday cheer while tackling the complexities of love, family, and second chances. Kate, once a driven architecture student with dreams of changing the world, finds herself at a crossroads. After 20 years in the small town of Winterlight, where she sacrificed her career to support Everett’s medical practice and raise their children, she’s ready for a change. Their amicable divorce seems straightforward, but beneath the surface, Kate harbors resentment toward Everett for prioritizing work over their relationship, while Everett feels Kate’s passion for environmentalism overshadowed their marriage. Their adult children, Sienna (Emily Hall) and Gabe (Wilder Hudson), add another layer of complexity as Kate tries to shield them from what she perceives as her own mistakes.
And this is the part most people miss: Kate’s secret plan to sell their beloved family home, “The Mothership,” after one last perfect Christmas. But when Everett arrives with his new girlfriend, Tess (Jameela Jamil), Kate’s insecurities flare, and she finds herself drawn to the charming yet goofy Chet (Pierson Fodé). Throw in Sienna’s quirky British boyfriend, Nigel (Timothy Innes), and Everett’s loving fathers (Derek McGrath and Geoffrey Owens), and the Holden household becomes a powder keg of emotions ready to explode. Is it possible to move on while still holding onto the past?
A Merry Little Ex-Mas blends humor and heartfelt moments seamlessly. Chet’s hilarious scene involving a fire is a standout, while the film’s exploration of love and connection feels genuine. Silverstone and Hudson’s chemistry is undeniable, making their characters’ lingering affection believable. The Holden family’s quirky traditions—handmade gifts, a gingerbread bake-off, and origami birds inscribed with gratitude—add a layer of warmth and nostalgia that’s hard to resist.
What sets this film apart is its refusal to paint anyone as the villain. Even Tess and Chet, who stir up tension, are portrayed as flawed individuals trying their best. Is it fair to judge someone for pursuing their own happiness, even if it complicates others’ lives? This question lingers throughout the film, inviting viewers to reflect on their own relationships and priorities.
If you’re a fan of holiday rom-coms like Christmas Wonderland, An Unexpected Christmas, or Cranberry Christmas, A Merry Little Ex-Mas will feel like a cozy embrace. Timothy Innes and Pierson Fodé shine as Nigel and Chet, their quirky performances stealing scenes effortlessly. And who can forget Nigel’s memorable line: “I didn’t sign up for dating some country doctor, and his wife, and whatever the hell Nigel is.”
But here’s the real question: Can love and tradition overcome the complexities of life? A Merry Little Ex-Mas doesn’t provide easy answers, but it does offer a delightful journey filled with laughter, tears, and plenty of holiday spirit. Our verdict? STREAM IT!
As we dive into the 2025 holiday season, let Decider be your guide to all things festive. From Hallmark’s Countdown to Christmas to Netflix’s latest offerings, there’s no shortage of cheer to go around. So grab your hot cocoa, snuggle up, and let the binge-watching begin!
